Monday, November 14, 2011

happiness secrets

If we knew the secret to why people are happy, it would be so easy to be that happy person too. Why is there such a difference in happy and unhappy people? It's easy to see that as are actions express happiness, we tend to be happier. And, in reverse the same is true for unhappy people. The less happy you are, the more unhappy you will become. It's a never-ending scenario.



Happiness breeds happiness and unhappiness breeds more unhappiness. It takes effort either way...my choice-be happy. Here are a habits of happy people and ways they tend to consistently be so happy with everything:



1. Happy People Perceive Themselves in a Positive View--They see the world in an optimistic way. They have goals, they write them down, and they go for those goals. They do have negative thoughts, but they're more apt to replace a negative thought with a positive one.



2. Strong, Supportive Relationships Help You Live Longer--Happy people enjoy sharing in other people's successes. They show appreciation for people in their life and they support other people's dreams. They want to make people happy. Their friendships and family relationships make tighter bonds.



3. Exercise Makes You Happy Too-- It doesn't sound overwhelming so, but exercise is a great release for any tension or stress, while energizing you at the same time. It gives you another reason to be happy. That's what it's all about. The only way to make that time better would be working out with a group. Keep it up!



4. Happier people donate their time above others--They lend a hand to people in need. They volunteer because it makes them feel good. It helps them build more relationships with yet another social group. People are drawn to them as they create the best habits of all. They're remembered for the kindness they do, and help out regularly. It's a great feeling-something that is really hard to describe unless you've been there before...



5. Happy People Love the Big and Little Things That Happen Every Day--They think of incredible things that increase their inner self-esteem. They find themselves smiling just because-it could just be remembering something in the past, a friendly voice, a voice mail, most anything. They love the details of every day life, it's what makes them appreciate everything and everyone so much more.



It's amazing what little things can bring happiness to someone's life. It's even more incredible that happy people emphasize the good over the bad to make the most of life. It's all about quality. Everyone is entitled to quality of life-everything worth having is worth working towards. Being happy doesn't take much more than changing views and creating new habits. Be happy!

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

the traffic guy

the trafic police stopped me at cross road because my hand was on my head while driving car, he said , " ur using mobile" i said check the call log in mobile, so he wanted puc certificate, i did not have , so he checked driving licence, and said as i did not have the puc and as i was having photocopy of driving licence, i am liable to pay the fine. so paid fine and got the receipt of that. MORAL - u need to keep original licence copy and puc certificate in the car. and if you are caught the policeman has n no of loopholes to catch u. But it is important to cooperate these traffic police guys, for a better future.

Sunday, September 11, 2011

lone life reasonable

you can be never alone, befriend with the inner being alive, life will be more reasonable always.

Monday, August 22, 2011

lovely game

love is the name , love is the breath, only two options love or hate, better is the intoxication of love than pain of hatred, intoxicated game, love is the name, lovely is the game.

Monday, August 8, 2011

growth , life , enriched

growth is the process , constant in human life , few who realise , feel the joy of growring , few who love it become mystical with lovely feeling of constantly being enriched...

Monday, May 30, 2011

worry, love, thought, feeling,....!!!!

worry is the thought ,
which loves to dominate,
love is the feeling,
which loves to follow,
man is hue and sway in the thoughts and feelings,
sometimes in thoughts,
sometimes in feelings....!!!

Monday, February 21, 2011

saint and sinner


The game of me and him,
the game of saint and the sinner,
both are lovely children of the god,
saint because he loves the god,
sinner because god loves him,
so ironical the love is,
you surrender and still you wait,...
waiting sometimes eternal,
waiting sometimes momentary,...
sometimes a single moment as long as eternity,
sometimes eternity as small as a single moment,...
sinner in me says, let my sins speak up and face him face to face,
saint in me says, let my love speak up and merge in him one to one,
lovely is the game of the saint and sinner.

Monday, February 7, 2011

the story of I


i am me,
i am the mask,
something alive within,
with no name,
with no form,
has the covering of me,
yet i love my cover,
yet i love the one within,
sometimes i am the balance,
sometimes i am the extreme of the balance,
oh god,
sometimes its you,
sometimes its me,
sometimes its we,
beautiful is the story of I.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

unity and love

"I offer you peace. I offer you love. I offer you friendship. I see your beauty. I hear your need. I feel your feelings. My wisdom flows from the Highest Source. I salute that Source in you. Let us work together for unity and love."
Mohandas Gandhi



the above lines set me thinking. Love can be so natural, and it can be so easy to love and grow.