Sunday, December 5, 2010

life love remember forget

life is all but a chance ..
to love ... 
to do...
to remember...
to forget....

thanks madhusudan for this spark !!!

Friday, November 26, 2010

power of being human

POWER OF BEING HUMAN- we all are born with tendencies which are similar to all living and nonliving entities, we all have chance to evolve to the state of love wherein we can make love a feeling more human, more universal, more deeper yet leaving an option that it still can be better. more we think of the self or we evaluate how much we receive love we get more rigid or confused. more we think of giving love we become more clear and mild

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

lovely spiritual evolution

happiness is sharing..
happy is being..
love is essence...
growing in love is spiritual..
loving relationships are one dimension of growth..
turning lovelier in all aspects and in all conditions is spiritual..
see love within...
spread love around....
principles of being remain same...
evolution in love is always so individual....

Monday, October 25, 2010

give it a try

"It's impossible," said pride. 
"It's risky," said experience. 
"It's pointless," said reason.
 "Give it a try," said the heart

Friday, October 22, 2010

waiting to be one with within

connection with earth,
the touch of sand, 
the sound of waves, 
the soothe of breeze,
melting horizon,
lovely is the nature,...
constantly waiting to be one with within....

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

life

i - you - me,
good - bad - better,
bad - good -worse,
all the words leading to.....
a common rigmarole....
called life...
born to love.....
struggled to become....
yet struggled to love....
forcing outward,
forcing inward,
loved to think sense of becoming,
yet sense of love so subtle,
speaking silent,
listening loud....
loving rigmarole of growing...
sometimes within,
sometimes outside,..
sense of being.

Friday, October 8, 2010

worthy or worthless

worthy or worthless,
at a point of time body is worthy, mind is worthy,
at a poin of time body is worthless, mind is worthless,
so conditional life can be,
always full of worth is the sense of being,
which is torch to the acts of the moment,
always full of worth is the act of the moment,
which is done with sense of consciousness.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

being love..

good is the feeling to be loved,
better the feeling of the belvoed,
best is the feeling of being love.....

Saturday, September 25, 2010

young i am: let the love groom your life

young i am: let the love groom your life: "love is a flow....when it is regulated.... it becomes a calculated move....any calculated move is a bargain.....and any bargain is never lov..."

let the love groom your life

love is a flow....
when it is regulated....
it becomes a calculated move....
any calculated move is a bargain.....
and any bargain is never love.......

love the self....
love the sense of being....
let the love flow out of u......
let love groom the enviornment around u.....
ultimately become lovelier and lovelier person......

feel the happiness of being love......
feel the loveliness of loving self.......
let the love enrich the lovely life always..........

Thursday, June 10, 2010

work and life balance

There was a time when the boundaries between work and home were fairly clear. Today, however, work is likely to invade your personal life — and maintaining work-life balance is no simple task. Still, work-life balance isn't out of reach. Start by evaluating your relationship to work. Then apply specific strategies to help you strike a healthier balance.

Married to your work? Consider the cost

It can be tempting to rack up hours at work, especially if you're trying to earn a promotion or manage an ever-increasing workload. Sometimes overtime may even be required. If you're spending most of your time working, though, your home life will take a hit. Consider the consequences of poor work-life balance:

  • Fatigue. When you're tired, your ability to work productively and think clearly may suffer — which could take a toll on your professional reputation or lead to dangerous or costly mistakes.
  • Lost time with friends and loved ones. If you're working too much, you may miss important family events or milestones. This can leave you feeling left out and may harm relationships with your loved ones. It's also difficult to nurture friendships if you're always working.
  • Increased expectations. If you regularly work extra hours, you may be given more responsibility. This may lead to only more concerns and challenges.

Strike a better work-life balance

As long as you're working, juggling the demands of career and personal life will probably be an ongoing challenge. Use these ideas to help you find the work-life balance that's best for you:

  • Track your time. Track everything you do for one week, including work-related and personal activities. Decide what's necessary and what satisfies you the most. Cut or delegate activities you don't enjoy or can't handle — or share your concerns and possible solutions with your employer or others.
  • Take advantage of your options. Ask your employer about flex hours, a compressed workweek, job sharing, telecommuting or other scheduling flexibility. The more control you have over your hours, the less stressed you're likely to be.
  • Learn to say no. Whether it's a co-worker asking you to spearhead an extra project or your child's teacher asking you to manage the class play, remember that it's OK to respectfully say no. When you quit doing the things you do only out of guilt or a false sense of obligation, you'll make more room in your life for the activities that are meaningful to you and bring you joy.
  • Leave work at work. With the technology to connect to anyone at any time from virtually anywhere, there may be no boundary between work and home — unless you create it. Make a conscious decision to separate work time from personal time. When you're with your family, for instance, turn off your cell phone and put away your laptop computer.
  • Manage your time. Organize household tasks efficiently, such as running errands in batches or doing a load of laundry every day, rather than saving it all for your day off. Put family events on a weekly family calendar and keep a daily to-do list. Do what needs to be done and let the rest go. Limit time-consuming misunderstandings by communicating clearly and listening carefully. Take notes if necessary.
  • Bolster your support system. At work, join forces with co-workers who can cover for you — and vice versa — when family conflicts arise. At home, enlist trusted friends and loved ones to pitch in with child care or household responsibilities when you need to work overtime or travel.
  • Nurture yourself. Eat healthy foods, include physical activity in your daily routine and get enough sleep. Set aside time each day for an activity that you enjoy, such as practicing yoga or reading. Better yet, discover activities you can do with your partner, family or friends — such as hiking, dancing or taking cooking classes.

Know when to seek professional help

Everyone needs help from time to time. If your life feels too chaotic to manage and you're spinning your wheels worrying about it, talk with a professional — such as a counselor or other mental health professional. If your employer offers an employee assistance program (EAP), take advantage of available services.

Remember, striking a healthy work-life balance isn't a one-shot deal. Creating work-life balance is a continuous process as your family, interests and work life change. Periodically examine your priorities — and make changes, if necessary — to make sure you're keeping on track.

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

love, god, voice within

lovely is to seek god within,
silent is the answer from within,
growing is learning to listen to voice within.

Monday, April 26, 2010

life is love.

life is love...
love it.
life is happiness...
happy it.
life is bliss...
bless it.
life is alive....
live it.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

GOD kind or cruel

thinking alone,
thinking with him,
the two opposites of one principle,
i was thinking,
god you are kind or cruel, ......

Monday, April 19, 2010

call of dreams.

your dreams will continue to call out to you, either softly or loudly, until you acknowledge them and express them in your everyday life.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

intoxication good , bad

intoxication is good when it intoxicates,
intoxication is bad when it incapaciates.

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Friday, April 2, 2010

power of human mind and connection with god

in compassion, the seemingly opposite feelings of sadness and joy merge into one and become transmuted into deep inner peace. This is the peace of god. It is the feeling we human beings are capable of and it has the transformative power.

Monday, March 22, 2010

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Thursday, March 11, 2010

dance in rain

"Life's not about waiting for the storms to pass...
It's about learning to dance in the rain."
~Vivian Greene

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Thursday, February 18, 2010

happiness

"The HAPPIESTpeople DO NOTnecessarily have the BEST of all.They simply APPRECIATE what they find on their way”

Friday, February 5, 2010

interesting funny letter copied from an email

A School Master from a remote rural area in Bihar was transferred to a new School in Mumbai. He reported for duty two days after the actual date of joining. Consequently he was asked for an explanation in writing...

Deer sur,
If small small mistakes getting inside my letter, I big you pardon, ass I am not a good englis speaker.
This is my fist vijit to Bombai. Stickly speaking, I wanted to joint your school more fastly,but for the following region, too much time lost in getting slipper reservation in three-tyre compartment.
I tolded I has head ache problem due to migration. Still the clerk rejected to give ticket to I and my sun.
I putted a complain on station masterji.
He said I to go to the lady clerk.
At first she also rejected. I then pressed for long time and finally with great difficulty she gave a birth to my sun.
Anyway I thanked the station master also because he was phully responsible for getting birth of my sun.
Ass a hole it was a bhery diphicult experiment in my hole life.
I hope u will look into explain my hole story after,and late me joint first.
I am now ending this fastly. I am a waiter for your responsement.
May God blast you!"

Yours awfully,
yadav

Monday, February 1, 2010

do your best

rather than trying to please others, please yourself instead- by doing your best and knowing its good enough.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

loving bliss being alive

Being alive each moment is the learning,

being at bliss each moment is being alive,

being loving is the simplest way of learning to keep being alive.

Friday, January 8, 2010

TREASURE - HEART

wherever your heart is, that is where you'll find your treasure. - ALCHEMIST